How childhood trauma affects health across a lifetime | Nadine Burke Harris

You can choose to live anyway. No matter what you have suffered or enjoyed, no matter how much luxury and acclaim you have endured in your lifetime - you can still choose this day to live. You don't have to continue to be shepherded by the influences of your childhood.

When you become an adult, you can and should choose to set your own course. As soon as possible, you can choose to learn whom you are and be true to that instead of what the outside influencers want you to be FOR THEIR BENEFIT.

Of course Abusers want to abuse you.

Did you know that some people drive you to abuse them so that they feel no quilt for betraying you.  There are some truly evil corners in this world as you already know. 

Remember, you must decide one way or another:  "I will follow the path that those who hurt me set before me (and hate/harm myself)." or "I WILL NOT BELIEVE THE ABUSE OF THOSE WHO HURT ME, THEY ARE HURT THEMSELVES AND CHOOSE TO PASS ON THEIR OWN TRAUMA TO OTHERS. THEY ARE COWARDS. SINCE MY LIVER IS NOT YELLOW AND ELOHIM IS WITH ME CARRYING ME - I CHOOSE TO HARKEN TO THE VOICE OF YESHUA AND WILL LISTEN TO NO OTHER - NOT EVEN HURT, PAIN, DISAPPOINTMENT AND DRUG INFLUENCES."

SELAH.